How to keep a woman in your bed

Come with clean hands

Be honest with your partner and share your emotions. Discuss your
fears and insecurities and listen to her fears. Many women are
innately jealous and insecure, especially about other women. Do not
give room for jealousy to manifest in your relationship. Put your
woman on a pedestal and worship her. The truth is that others will
treat her the way you treat her.

Shun infidelity

Infidelity seems to have become fashionable. A lot of people have
thrown caution to the wind. Some even feel that what a man can do, a
woman can do better. This is deceptive and eroding the very fabric of
the society. Remember, this is life, real life and your life to be
built or destroyed as you see fit.

Indeed, eighty per cent of those in relationships appear to have a
hidden agenda. For the Nigerian men, they believe the women are only
interested in their money. But this is perhaps only a minority of
women who trade sexual favour for money. Such women target men with
money and power.

In order to keep a woman in your bed:

Know her hormonal responses:When it comes to female behaviour,
hormones often get the lion's share of the blame (or credit,
depending). Hormones are why men are supposed to know to bring her
flowers and chocolate during "that time of the month." They're why
women need to be romanced in order to feel like getting romantic.

*When you start dating and get close enough to discuss intimate
details with a woman, you'll eventually learn specific things about
her that are related to her hormones, such as how her menstrual cycle
influences her behaviour and mood. Don't assume that you know
everything about her hormones just because you've been in a previous
relationship!

*Premenstrual syndrome is experienced by three out of every four
women. Nobody knows exactly what causes PMS, other than the
fluctuations of hormones and chemical changes in the brain.Recognizing
what constitutes normal PMS symptoms in the woman in your life can
help everyone manage a potentially difficult time.

Pregnancy is wacky:You thought that hormones went crazy during puberty
-- or during "that time of the month" -- but everything changes when a
woman gets pregnant. Pregnancy is an amazing feat of the female body,
but be forewarned: The hormones involved can really wreak havoc during
this time.

Understand menopause:At its most basic, menopause just means that a
woman stops being fertile. You may not realise that menopause is
actually a gradual transition -- it's not like turning off a switch. It
also varies greatly depending on the woman, like everything else.

Sexual dysfunction:Sexual dysfunction in women can also be linked to a
lack of intimacy, depression or body image issues. However, it's also
perfectly normal for a woman's libido to change over the course of her
lifetime. When hormones are surging during adolescence, both men and
women have higher libidos. As those hormone levels stabilise, a
woman's libido is more likely to do the same. Then it could decrease
as she matures and adds in environmental factors like birth control
and job stress.

The bottom line:Women aren't slaves to their hormones any more than
men are (that, after all, would imply that all they do is think about
sex). Knowing more about the complexities of women's hormones,
however, can only help men better understand the opposite sex.

Culled from Punch